Love IS....

What is Love? I find myself asking this question hopeing to come up with a reasonably good explanantion, the thing is there is'nt only just one explanation that sums it all up.
Love is different for everyone and we all have our own understanding and interpretation of what love is.

My Conclusion after asking this question soo many times is that love is complexed, its a cluster made up of emotional, physical, mental , intellectual and spiritual matter. Love is a something that you feel and after many hours of thought I have realised that its something you can't really explain with words. Perhaps the dictonary can explain it best: Love is.....have a great affection or liking for, a strong positive emotion of regards and affection, get pleasure from.

What about those butterflies? Mmmm many people associate Love with the butterfly feeling that they experience with the birth of a new Relationship. That feeling of excitement, the feeling or yearning to be with that person, you feel invincable and that nothing in the world can get you down. As wonderful as this sounds what we need to understand is that this feeling does and will eventually fade.

Many people think that once this feeling has gone then they are no longer inlove. This may very well be but there is a possibility that perhaps the relationship has moved on to another level. What the butterflies left behind was a deeper and different love, a comfortable and more mature love. If you continue to chase the butterflies then you will forever be chasing that non existent pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

Its possible to confuse love with infatuation and lust, its easy to get caught up in a whirlwind of emotions and mistake it for being love. I think we would be wise to understand that there are different types and different levels of Love

Love is about Giving , Lust is about taking.......